The Tradition of Remembering

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by Charleen Burghardt

They remembered that God was their Rock, that God Most High was their Redeemer (Psalm 78:35 NIV).

Christmas abounds with meaningful and fun traditions interwoven into the fabric of every household. These traditions offer predictable rituals, like putting up a Christmas tree or attending a choir cantata.

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Putting up a Christmas tree

During my childhood, there was a unique tradition in my family where we would unwrap our gifts on Christmas Eve. Years later, I continued that tradition with my children. We gather for a meal, exchange presents, and eat homemade cookies. The next morning, Christmas Day, we eat egg and potato casserole with bagels covered in cream cheese. Then we open the gifts stuffed in our stockings. The day is casual, allowing everyone time to enjoy their presents, especially for the guys to try their new electronics.

Traditions we continue with our children

Another ritual we have is hanging ornaments to honor and remember my parents. After they passed, I ordered engraved pewter ornaments with their names and the significant dates. Every year, my son with autism looks forward to rummaging through the box of decorations to find their ornaments. He decides where to put them on the tree and carefully hangs them. We share stories of his grandparents and cherish their memories.  

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Aleta Horkott’s engraved ornament
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Frank Horkott’s ornament

Long before our family traditions, Moses established an annual practice of Passover in which the Jewish people celebrate how God delivered the Israelites from slavery in Egypt. Over 16 times, Moses instructed the Israelites to remember God’s miracle of deliverance and divine provision while they wandered in the wilderness.

Remember God’s miracle deliverance

In like manner, the apostle Paul urged the Ephesians to remember their rescue from darkness and Christ’s redemption. Participating in Holy Communion commemorates Christ’s work on the cross. Our Christian faith calls us to remember.

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Bread and the cup to remember Christ’s sacrifice

Communion calls us to remember

During this holiday, rehearse God’s gifts of forgiveness, redemption, joy, peace, and hope. When we do, we honor God, build our faith, and grow in thankfulness.

The tradition of remembering

Dear giving God, 

We thank you for the gift of Christ coming to be born in a manger and the redemptive work of the cross. We remember your mighty works, along with your unconditional love. You made a way for us in Christ by your mercy and grace. May we always remember the imperishable gifts of joy and peace. 

In Christ’s name,

Amen.

What are your traditions that help you remember a loved one or a special time?

I would enjoy hearing some of your traditions, post in the comment section.

First published in Word Weavers International, December 19, 2023

https://word-weavers.com/blog/600-The-Tradition-of-Remembering

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8 comments

  1. As you know I grew up in Germany and the Christ child (Christkind) brings the present on Christmas Eve. That’s when the Christmas Tree was decorated and presents opened. I continued these traditions here in the States with my own family.

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